Reality check: The importance of confidentiality in swingers arrangements

This is a reality check for all the swingers out there who think that confidentiality is just a formality. A couple we know decided to dip their toes into the world of swinging and joined a group. They were excited about the new experiences and the thrill of sharing their partner with others. Everything was going great until someone in the group decided to cross a line. They started talking smack about the wife, saying some pretty nasty stuff. The husband, understandably upset, confronted the talkative group member. Things got heated and the group leader had to step in to cool things off. The lesson here is that when you enter into a swinging arrangement, you need to be careful about who you trust. And always remember, what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. This is not just a saying, it's a rule that everyone needs to abide by. Or else, things could get really ugly, really fast.